Be Decisive With Your Life

I struggle with this question everyday, “What am I going to do with all my opportunities?”

Sometimes I ask, “What am I going to do?” But I wonder if that’s the right question. Maybe it is “What do I need to stop doing?”

You can’t focus on everything that has potential. If you try, you’ll spread yourself too thin and you’ll get nowhere. So maybe it’s another way of saying, “Indecisiveness/procrastination is a major problem for most of us.”

We all choose something to do, but most of us choose what is easy, what is comfortable, what is known, what we feel is predictable, and what we were taught to do in school. But it’s a trap, isn’t it? As many of you are finding out right now, what you thought was safe and predictable, isn’t. The go to school> get good grades> get a cushy cubicle job path is as risky as any other path.

That’s the silver lining in a bad economy, it educates us about what is important, it shows us new opportunities, and it forces us to grow. Some of you may not want to hear this right now, but we need recessions in the same way we need forest fires. They are as natural as birth and death, necessary parts of growth and regeneration.

Christine was at our accountant’s office last week getting our business taxes done, when the subject of the economy came up.

Our accountant said he lost his job in a bad recession and he couldn’t find a new one. He was forced to start his own accounting firm from home. It was difficult, but he eventually grew into an office space and hired employees. He said losing his job was the best thing that ever happened to him.

His son went through the same thing during the dot com bubble. He lost a 40K per year job, and couldn’t find another. He eventually gave up on the idea of ever having a job, and instead went freelance. Today he owns his own company and makes 300K a year.

A friend’s father was an engineer and lost his job during a long ago recession. He had three kids at home, a house payment, and a wife who didn’t work. He couldn’t find a job, so he started freelancing and grew his practice into to a respected local engineering firm that lasted decades.

Not one of these success stories is internet related. Two of them happened before the personal computer had been invented. Today, with the internet and social media, your opportunities are exponentially greater than ever before.

So what are you going to do with all your opportunities?

6 thoughts on “Be Decisive With Your Life”

  1. Thanks for this post. My own story is kind of a twist on this, in that I left a conventional law firm job to start my own business around fifteen months ago, and thus far haven’t made nearly as much money as I used to make in my old job, but still I’ve had an inner peace that’s been surprising and I plan to keep plugging away.

  2. As one who suffers from chronic “paralysis by analysis” I found this post pretty encouraging. Examples of those who’ve taken responsibility for their own lives are good to read for those like myself who’ll find themselves setting their own course instead of offering navigational suggestions to the captain of someone else’s ship. Found this earlier today and was immediately humbled that I don’t try harder and smarter and longer… It’s probably not at all what you’ll expect to see. Doing more with less takes on a whole new meaning. Which doesn’t mean we have to aim low. Thanks to all who contribute.

  3. In other words, If you lose something don’t bother because something better is waiting for you. The only thing is that we need to look at new opened doors.

  4. never give up when it is about your dreams, strive to do your best and daily do at least one thing for you. opportunities must correlate with your dreams and ideas.

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